Sunday, February 16, 2014

Much needed fun!

It had been a while since I'd gone out, so it was nice to get out last night to a Bearracuda underwear party. The DJ's were spinning really awesome music, kept me in the dance floor most of the night. Got friendly with a few. ;) It was some much needed FUN! 

Friday, February 14, 2014


This night, exactly 10 years ago, I dumped my sorry excuse for a boyfriend and have been single ever since. And I  haven't regretted it yet. So happy heart's day, however you celebrate it.

Sunday, February 9, 2014


Decided to buy a few of those cute Android toys. One in a suit and the other in an unmarked box. I actually wanted any of the 3 pictured in the middle, but got the gold one, which ain't bad. That's my latest geek purchase. 

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Deciphering Guy Speak

Anyone who deals with guys long enough will (hopefully) learn to decipher the true meaning of what is being said. It's really a useful skill to learn. There are certain phrases that the experienced will know exactly what it means, what it doesn't mean, etc. Here's some examples:
"I might be free later" = This means the guy probably WON'T be free later and you'll waste your time waiting around for a meeting that won't happen.
"Let's meet up sometime" = You'll probably never hear from this guy again. And don't even bother contacting him because you'll just get some excuse about how busy he is, etc.
"I'll call/contact you later this week" = Don't plan on getting that call/text/e-mail. Unless he gives you specific date and time you'll find yourself sitting around waiting... and waiting....
Now if you're the type of guy who uses lines like the ones listed above then you should be aware that this may be the reason why you find yourself often home alone, bored, with no plans or no one available to do stuff with. Words like MAYBE, MIGHT, LATER don't instill a lot of confidence that there will be follow through. If you're serious about callling someone later, meeting up with them later, etc, then you most likely should NOT use the above words because when you do call that guy in the middle of the week to ask if he's free on the weekend he's probably already made plans with someone else who bothered to follow through with a more solid plan. That's how I am. I will NOT block off any chunk of time for a might or a maybe. If person A tells me "maybe we can hang out this weekend?" and person B tells me "let's do dinner and a movie this Saturday night, i'll pick you up" then person B will get my RSVP. If you're not sure that you can follow through on suggested plans then you should NOT bother making the suggestion in the first place.
That's my story and i'm stickin' to it... you can now go back to your regularly scheduled program. ;-)

Saturday, February 1, 2014

Getting By....

While the first week of this year has been good, it seems to have gone to shit the last few weeks. Got a ticket for running a red light, cost me a good $500+, then my car has been acting up so it's time to take it to the shop. Hope it's nothing too pricey. I hate dealing with car bs, but unfortunately, where I live, having a car is kinda necessary. On the plus side, my friends have been a good support for me, keeping me from getting too stressed out. I've also had some good stress relief from some hot F buddies, that always helps to improve the mood, though my behind is a bit sore from all the pounding, but I can't really complain about that. In other good news I seem to have been able to lose a few more pounds. I was down to 171 a few weeks ago, the last 2 days I got on the scale it said about 168 or so. Guess i've learned to deal with stress in other ways besides stuffing myself with food. I'll just ride this annoying wave until things improve, and hope that the rest of the year doesn't see any more annoyances.